Being attractive doesn’t just mean looking pretty on the outside. Your inner qualities and the ways in which you behave also matter.
Have you noticed that some very beautiful people are not successful and don’t have as many friends as they probably should? The reason for this may be some of the habits listed below.
Here are seven mistakes that make people unattractive for everyone:
Nobody loves boasters. If you’re constantly talking about your money, possessions or achievements, stop doing that immediately. People will get tired of hearing it all the time. Instead, manifest a genuine interest in how other people are faring. If genuine is too much for you, faking it works too.
#2. Zero Self-Respect
If you don’t respect yourself, how can you expect others to do so? Remember that you are special, and try to learn all you can about yourself. Love yourself and people will like you more too.
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#3. Fear of Rejection
You can’t truly live if you don’t experience life to the fullest. Don’t hide away in your corner, for fear you might get hurt or rejected. Face that fear and accept the possibility of defeat, but rise like a phoenix from the ashes and try again. Truly connecting with even a single person will make the effort worthwhile.
#4. Seeking Others’ Approval
Not expressing what you truly think or want, because you don’t want to bother other people or you’re afraid of what they may think of you, is very unattractive. Share your opinions and preferences with the world. Otherwise, you’ll just feel like a burden to others and you might not like where you end up at the end of the day.
#5. No Boundaries
This goes both ways. Don't be afraid to stand up for yourself, because no one will do it for you. At the same time, respect other people’s privacy and opinions.
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#6. Being Disrespectful
You don’t need to be the embodiment of a lady to be considered respectful. Stick to the minimum code of conduct and show other people that you value their time, their work or, simply, their person. Be punctual and listen when people talk to you.
#7. Fear of Loneliness
The fear of loneliness makes you hang on to relationships that you care nothing about. You surround yourself with people that treat you badly or you have nothing in common with. This makes you clingy and attracts only people who wish to take advantage of your vulnerability. Trust yourself more and learn how to be alone.
We at BetterMe want everyone to know and experience true love. It is out there for everyone and until it knocks on your door we are here to remind you that you deserve the best love!
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