Many women are obsessed with the idea of influencing men. It seems to them that with the help of certain tricks and manipulations a woman can get anything from a man. However, women need to apply psychological tricks only. It is nothing but science that will help you.
It often happens that we need to attract a man to ourselves, to influence his attitude to the situation, the environment, and sometimes we have difficulties with it. How to do it? Today we will talk about 7 really simple, but incredibly effective ways to influence people
All the methods have been used repeatedly by me and have been tested for practice by thousands of other people. Therefore, there is no doubt about their effectiveness. It is enough to know how and in what situation to apply this or that psychological cunning. If you doubt yourself and think that you will not succeed, though. So, keep that confidence.
Persuasion is the reasoned influence on a person in order to change his/her judgments, attitudes towards something, his intentions or decisions. This is a very common way for women to influence men. Unfortunately, it is often misused.
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#2. Hidden Influence
Hidden Influence has a subtle effect on a person in order to change his condition or predisposition to something. The effect of this method depends on personal magnetism, the artistry of a woman and the degree of suggestibility of a man.
For Hidden Influence use:
- personal magnetism;
- personal authority;
- confident behavior and measured speech;
- relaxing environment.
A request is an appeal to a person with a call to satisfy your needs or desires. The request is expressed in clear and polite language, with respect for the human right to refuse a request for one reason or another. People are more likely to do you a favor, if he/she once denied your request.
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Coercion is the requirement to execute an order that can be backed up by both open and indirect threats. In other words, people are pressured into trying to get what they want. In this case, intimidation of consequences or punishment is used. Women can tell men that they are not going to have sex with them as their conditions.
#5. Destructive criticism
This kind of influence includes insulting, disparaging, aggressive judgments and statements about a person and his actions. It is ridiculing that a person can not change, for example, any circumstances and obligations or physical features. Even fair criticism can become destructive if it is spoken at an inopportune moment, for example, when a person is crushed by failure.
Ignoring is an intentional inattention to the statements and actions of a partner, in order to provoke them to the desired behavior or attitude. Words are demonstratively skipped past the ears, the person pretends that he does not notice the presence of his partner, does not fulfill his promises, is late and does not explain his behavior.
Manipulation begins with the fact that a person is induced to experience someone's state, to change attitudes toward something, to make certain decisions, to perform certain actions that the manipulator needs to achieve his goals. At the same time, a person does not understand what influences him, but he considers feelings, decisions and actions to be his own and not imposed from outside.
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